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Can I touch your belly?

How do you feel about people asking to touch your belly? Today I'm exactly 15 weeks and I'm not really showing. So when I recently started telling people I'm pregnant, I was shocked that everyone wants to touch my belly. I personally don't really like it because I feel as though they're just touching my belly fat instead of baby, lol, and it makes me feel uncomfortable. Has anyone asked to touch your belly?
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Im 15 weeks and showing  bit not a lot but enough... i dnt mind my family touching my belly but it really bothers me when my husbands family ask for some reason... and strangers im just kinda like um no .
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I'm excited to show my growing baby!!! But it's understandable... I think with men I'd be a little sketch about.
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I'm a bigger girl so I'm not showing and won't be for a while but some people that know want to touch my belly anyways. I don't mind it much but after a little bit touching needs to stop. Only my baby's father and the horses i work with can touch as much ad they want.
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For me, as long as it's family or friends, I don't care if they ask. They can hang all over my belly if they want...my hubby is even starting to. A couple of my coworkers have even rubbed the baby belly lol. But random strangers...um no, creepy much?
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I've heard for years how much women hate it but I actually don't mind! I'm a teacher so I get it from my students too which I love. They say goodbye to me and the baby at the end of the day.
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Thanks for allyour responses,  it helps to know I'm not alone
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I dont like it now but it might be bc im not really showing much. One of my friends lifted up my shirt without asking. I was not happy about that.
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Ugh, absolutely hate it. My baby daddy's grandma does it and doesn't even touch the right spot!! She touches where my stomach would be and I have to restrain myself from saying, "uhh there's no baby in there, try a little lower." I feel like when I'm actually showing I won't mind as much, but right now there's not much to touch!
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I don't think it's that big of a deal, then again I am an open person pre-pregnancy!
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I don't mind if they ask but what really grind my gears is when people just touch and doesn't ask. Escpically when its some random person.
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I generally tell people if you didn't put the baby there you don't get to touch it. Same thing with the delivery room. My husband and I were the only ones in the room when this baby was made we will be the only ones there when we deliver.
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Thanks yellowmama77, glad to know I'm not alone
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Me! I hate it!& when people ask to look at it.
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