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I had a miscarriage 2 years ago and im terrified of having another one...

I lost my first baby due to a miscarriage about two years ago amd i found out a few days ago that im 4 weeks pregnant again. I am so scared of having another miscarriage that i dont let anyone even talk about the baby because i feel like theyre jinxing it... How can i calm my nerves?
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7058746 tn?1393439020
Hi! So I miscarried about 2 years ago as well and I'm 6 weeks 1 day.  I am terrified as well but I try to keep positive I have nausea and vomiting where I didn't with my miscarriage. I had no signs at all.  I have tons of signs my baby is growing meaning the lower stretching the lower back pain the extreme tiredness and the famous nausea and vomiting and so on. That all means baby is doing fine. Look for the positive things. Keep your head up :)
I'm 8 almost 9 weeks today and so far everything has been going great. I've been nauseous and throwing up and back pains and I saw the baby move last week. The heart rate was 182 bpm. How is everything going with your pregnancy?
7058746 tn?1393439020
So far so good all signs and symptoms of pregnancy are present. Lol!  I'll be 9 weeks on Sunday.  I have my first ob apt on Monday. Super nauseous and throwing up, super sore and big breasts. My 3 year old girl says I have 2 babies in my tummy. Lol! However I am avoiding everything that could cause a miscarriage and including having sex.  I'm terrified of going through it again.
I'm scared of that too and I have really weird symptoms like any food grosses me out I can't eat anything I've been forcing myself to eat at least something through the day but when I do I just get sick and so so nauseous. I figure if my body wants me to eat I'll get hungry but I just can't eat any food without being grossed out I've tried tomatoes cucumbers cereal toast oatmeal mandarins meats salads french fries and everything and nothing even remotely sounds appetising. Other than that everything is going well, I hope your appointment goes well maybe you'll be able to see your baby move at your app.
7058746 tn?1393439020
The smell of Beans make me sick. I have found fruit of any kind stays down but if I'm on an empty stomach I better eat quick or I'm throwing up nothing. It's the worst! I'll think something sounds good and I'll eat it and didn't satisfy me at all.  Any type of Asian food will not stay down at all! Im hoping for the best on Monday.
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