Okay, I could be completely overreacting, but this is what is going on.
Back in August, I had to move with the Air Force up to Montgomery, and my guy's best friend (D) finally split with his girlfriend of six years. The man is 40 y/o, and has never lived alone, and parties his money away. Martin told him he could have a year to live there and get it together.
Then I got pregnant. I'm leaving the Air Force and going home hopefully in March. D found another girlfriend in November, was going to marry her at Christmastime, and we weren't worried about him staying because he was going to move in with her poor unfortunate soul. She wised up. Good for her, bad for me. D has continued to party his money away (didn't pay rent last month and now owes Martin $1200), and he found out in December that his job is moving to San Antonio in March. They offered him a complete relocation, all expenses paid, and a bonus to stay on. Only problem is that this man, who has absolutely zero ties to the area doesn't want to leave the resort town. He turned them down, figures he'll just continue living with us when I move back.
I know he's Martin's best friend, but the guy is such a bad influence, and has actually started being mean to me now that I'm pregnant. I know part of me may be taking things the wrong way, but one way or another, it's ridiculous for him to keep living off us there, when we need that room empty for the baby. As of now Martin's giving him until the end of June, which gives us just over a month to get everything done after he leaves (and that's another thing - the guy is NOT clean and his cat has thrown up everywhere in our carpet). I am so stressed out right now.
Am I being mean? Or shouldn't he save some money and let us have our space back?