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I messed around with my ex and had unprotected sex on Nov 21. I felt EXTREMELY bad after we started and after literally about 3 pumps (sorry if this is TMI) I asked him to stop. I wasnt too worried at first because I knew he hadnt ejaculated and I had also recently had a period.

I then had sex with my boyfriend on Nov 27th, 29th, and 30th (He ejaculated inside me). I later found out I was pregnant and went to the doctor on Dec. 31st. I had a transvaginal ultrasound and they said that I was 6 weeks 2 days. My due date was Aug 24, which means that I concieved around the 30th.

I went to another doctor on Feb 4. when I should have been 11 weeks 2 days. I got another ultrasound (this one not transvaginal) and they said that I was 11 weeks 3 days and changed my due date to Aug 20. This means that I would have concieved around the 27th. All my ultrasounds since then have matched up with my current bf , but I know that sperm can stay inside you for a few days so this made me nervous about the ex boyfiend thing. Do you think there's anyway that my ex could be the father? This is tearing me up inside. I have read that early ultrasounds are usually pretty accurate, which make me feel better, but I have still been worried.
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1173196 tn?1292916490
A paternity test is the only way you will be 100% certain.
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Thannks.

And I know I posted the question before. I was looking for some more input.
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1019167 tn?1315588348
they always go by the very first ultrasound for the most accurate due date...
mine changed from end of aug to mid july due to size of the baby, but the date they are sticking to is the aug one because it was the very first!!

good luck, hope it turns out the way u want it!
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1173196 tn?1292916490
Ummmm....you posted this EXACT same problem on May 13.
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541150 tn?1306033843
The only way to tell for sure is to request a paternity test unless it is evident that he (your ex) is the father based on your kid’s features.  You are right. Sperm can stay inside for more than a day. But you said he didn’t ejaculate and the sex did not last long enough for him to get you pregnant. Three pumps is nothing, I think. Ultrasounds are not accurate.  Some babies will measure a week or two ahead, and others will measure a week or two behind.  I’m not saying he is or is not the father.  I do think, however, that you will have to go with a paternity test when the baby is born.

Have you spoken to your boyfriend about this at all?

Hopefully, based on your dates, someone will have more input for you.

Good Luck.
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