Tell her to record from the side of your vagina so it's not a full frontal. My pictures are of my son coming out but from more to the side and not a full vag shot. I love how they came out! I've seen pictures of others who had full vag shots and I knew that wasnt what I wanted! I will do it the same way this time too. Good luck
You could always say no private parts shots unless it is just when the baby is getting pushed out.
my mom is going to video tape mine of the birth=). my friend told me that at the end where you have to push you dont care whats going on in the room you would just want to get that baby out! but i think it would be awesome having it done=). i had 2 c-sections and now im going to have a natural birth after that so i hope i can have my true dream that i always wanted. to me it would be a good idea because then when you miss that birth you could always remember it and watch what you have achieved and what you and your boyfriend gone through together=). and thats a plus that your boyfriend wants a video of it because most men dont so that really rare that he wants one but thats awesome.