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So this is a very touchy subject and I have been on the baby center birth board since I found out I was pregnant. They are very judgemental so haven't said much. I found out I was pregnant Dec 21st.  My husband and I had split for a couple months from sep to nov. I slept with a guy I've know for awhile the beginning of nov. I then have my normal period  about a week and a half after sleeping with him. Then my husband and I decide to try and work things out and then we end up having sex in dec around ovulation which would have been the beginning of dec. The first guy swears he is the father and needs a paternity test but I know that its not his even though  I know its only a month apart but baby is measuring normal. Instead of being 13 weeks I would be 17. Im lost right now and want to know if im totally wrong?but in my heart i know its my husbands and my husband knows what happened
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It's very stressful
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I'm in a similar situation I wish I had a month difference I've got 6 days between
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According to your dates I would say it's your husbands child. But, being that it was so close you might always have that "what if" in your mind. If you're comfortable with moving fwrd with your husband and leaving the other guy out do it. But if you have the slightest bit if doubt I'll test. Just for peace of mind for you, husband, guy and most importantly the child. Good luck! And no judging. Life happens and in Gods will everything will work out.
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