Ex drama-need help or hope!!

[libbybaby]

So, I've been my hunny for 3yrs. Weve had a hell of a ride with his ex as far as child support, visitation, and her just simply being bi-polar....She has copied quite literally everything we've done (within weeks of us doing) for example-bought house, vehicle changes, copies the way I dress, even down to her having her bf get into the same field of work has my fiance...well now, im 19weeks, we told her at 15 weeks once we were in the clear....and now she's prego....ugh, I just want my time to shine....wah! any advice or hope would be lovely!! thx for letting me vent.

[Mimilove3]

It's ur time :) feel better because shes the one trying to be like you and not the other way around.. crazy lady if u ask me... my aunt did similar stuff to me. She was just jealous Of the life I had being married that she to copied me in lots of thing. You know what I cant tell u im more happy being me than she was trying to be me :)

[libbybaby]

thanks all. sorry for late replies. she was diagnosed but refuses to medicate and my fiance is convinced shes just getting worse. I found out were having a girl and thats what we wanted cause weve each got a boy....so were happy, there's no more raining on my parade!!!

[koyama83]

Is she diagnosed with bipolar disorder?

[babybolen]

I'm kind of in the same position. We told everyone really early on. I was only about 5 or 6 weeks. She is exactly 5 to 6 weeks behind me. I feel as if she let it happen on purpose. It's hard not to let it bother you. I wanted a girl and I'm having a boy. She wanted a girl and that's what she is having. I was pretty upset about it. But I just keep thanking god for letting me get pregnant when we didn't think I was able to. And for giving me this baby boy.

[ShirraD]

Try to ignore her.  She sounds very jealous.  Don't let her get to you. Enjoy this with your man.

[libbybaby]

thanks, just needed to vent. I appreciate your kind words!

[Liske]

It is your time to shine! The ex is ex, who cares what she does. Her time is in the past, she'll eventually have to realise that. As long your fiance knows this and acts accordingly, you should not worry. If she's as crazy as she sounds from your description, he'll probably be glad she's in the past lol Her baby is hers and her bf's, yours is special and unique because it is yours and your fiance's, and that is how everyone close to you will see it. You and your baby are the one they will care about.