Baby Shower

[Amers0808]

Hi ladies. So, I really want to have a baby shower and need one considering I'm having a girl and everything I still have from my first is boy stuff. Anyway, noone has mentioned throwing me one and I'm om with that, I know people are busy and have their own lives. My question is it considered rude to throw my own baby shower? What do you ladies think?

[RaisingTwoSoon]

I'm throwing my own as well but my friend is helping me with decorations. Many of my friends throw there own it's being considered more norm now an days.

[Amers0808]

Thanks for the input. I'll probably do my own. My hubby wants to help me.

[Nikki148]

I'm doing my own also.. This will be my fourth I had my first by surprise but I also gave myself one for the dads side of family.. My other 2 I gave myself like someone it will done my way so it will be how I want it.

[Amers0808]

That's kinda how I feel. I can do it my way and plus it'll be less stress for everyone else. But I'm still tossing around the idea. Who knows, someone might be planning something and I just don't know about it yet.

[ymendoza86]

It's not rude, I'm throwing my own baby shower too. My 2 first were surprises and it was all drama...this time is my way

[Amers0808]

Well I like having say so too but I don't want people to think I'm being rude or self indulgent.

[Momabear2086]

I'm throwing my own.   I don't see it as rude.  I'm just doing it bc I like having say so.