baby is sick

[jaymelee]

Hey ladies,
Worst day of my life had my 19 week ultrasound and found out baby is sick and i dnt have much amountic fluid for him i had to have a precedure where they put a needle in my belly and take the fluid to test  why baby is measuring to weeks smaller .....they think he may have a disability....He is not producing enough fluid for him to survive for much longer...... i have to wait 2 days to see how the tests go.... IM NOT COPING I CANT HANDLE THIS I DONT WANT TO LOOSE MY BABY BOY

[JadedSweetheart]

I can only imagine the fear and worry.  Have you talked to the doctor about giving you something for the anxiety.  Anxiety can make you nearly insane.  Most benzo-meds are class D, but safer for later on in pregnancy and could help with the stress of it all.  
Just a suggestion.  I hope you're doing well today!

[jhopeful]

I am so sorry to hear what you are going through.... My thoughts are with you in this very hard time.

[Chez_lee81]

I will  be keeping my fingers and toes crossed for some good news. Goodluck and remember that we will all be thinking of you. xxx

[lorane]

Sending you prayers and support.

[jaymelee]

Thanx all im so scared im gunna have to delivery the baby :( i cant deal with this

[Kristyingeorgia]

I am so sorry :-( You will be in my prayers!!!

[JadedSweetheart]

I'm so sorry to hear that!  I will be praying for you also.  We're here for you to talk, worry, and vent to.

[Caralea]

Very sorry to hear. Tons of hugs, prayers and wishes to you. Keep your head high- we have support right here for you!

[1sttimemommy25]

I'm sorry to hear that. I'm in a situation where the doctors are telling my baby is going to die and for me to get prepared. Its hard, but I refuse to give up. Right now she's still in me and ALIVE. So I have to take it one day at a time and thank GOD for another day. In the mean time, bond with your baby, sing to him, speak positive things, and that will help u also. I'm doing it and will continue to until I just can't. You and baby boy are in my prayers

[connorethansmom]

I am sorry to hear this.  When will you know the results?  I am a firm believer to not panic until you have reason to panic.  This theory just started after I had my kids, though.  With my son, I was told by several doctors that I would miscarry, to prepare myself.  I was bleeding, cramping, and there wasn't a heartbeat even though my levels were so high we should have seen one.  I learned from that experience that they may guess, but no one really knows for sure.  This is one of the only professions where they just don't know for certain what will happen.  My son is now 4.  Keep your head up, think positive thoughts, drink lots of water and spend time your loved ones.  Sending you my thoughts as well.

[kele1129]

oh, I am so sorry that you are living this. Keep the hope that they may find the problem and be able to solve it. Take it easy the next couple of days and as hard as I know it sounds, try to keep your mind busy. Find a good book, a movie anything to help you keep calm. You have this family in Vermont wishing you all the luck in the world.

[happynifer]

i think this is all of our worst nightmares...
we are all thinking of you and sending positive energy your way.
hang in there and hopefully they can find something on the amnio they can treat to help your baby boy