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Pregnancy: Dec 2010 Babies Community
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1099046 tn?1281009951

heartbroken

I am so heartbroken to post this to all of you but on Monday we had to say goodbye to our precious babies.  I went into the hospital on Sat to get checked out (thinking I may have lost my mocous plug).  I got the worst news imaginable.  I was dilated and having small contractions.  I stayed overnight at my local hospital.  Where one minute we were hopeful that I would just have to stay in the hospital on bedrest to the next that these babies were coming soon.  I was sent by ambulatnce to a Boston hospital the next morning to see a specialist.  Again every few hours we thought something different was going to happen.  It may have been an infection, it may have been a weak cervix or both.  and I was leaking amnio fluid.   Monday night I started to feel contractions and it all happened so quick.  My husband and I got to hold our beautfiul son and daughter while we could still feel their little heartbeats.  They were absolutely perfect in every way, except they were to young and weak to live.  We are both heartbroken and confused as to why this happened to us and to our beautiful babies.  Thank you all for being here the past 5 1/2 months.  It has been amazing.  I wish you all lots of luck with the rest of your pregnancies and cherish every moment of it and those babies when they come.  
23 Responses
865566 tn?1356700362
Oh my goodness. I am so very sorry to hear those horrible words.  My heart aches for you and I pray for you and your husband.  

I wish i could provide some comfort, and share the burden of your sorrow.

gayle
1240706 tn?1331602111
Oh, no!  I am so very sorry.  Wow, this was so emotional for me to read, I am crying.  I can't even imagine what you and your husband must be going through.  

You are in my thoughts and prayers.  I am at a loss for words, but I know nothing can truly be said to relive the pain you are feeling.  Just grieve and don't let anybody tell you otherwise.  I hope you and your husband have some time away from other stresses to just love and be there for each other.  God bless.
392430 tn?1382904781
I wish that these things did not happen and I wish that we could lessen your pain by feeling it with you. Hold tight to eachother and draw on eachothers strengths. You son and daughter knew they were and are loved and I am sure they felt all your love while you held them.

Kele
961574 tn?1520648103
I am so sorry to hear your news.  I am totally devestated!  I cannot imagine what you are going through!  I wish I could say something to ease the pain that you and your DH are going through
!  I will be praying for you my friend.
  Please know you have my deepest sympathy and I pray that you are able to heal your hearts quickly.  No one is every prepared for the loss of a child.  I am so happy that you got to hold your son and daugher, and know you will cherish those precious moments forever.  Please take comfort in the fact that they are in heaven and will never know pain or sorrow.  We are here for you! Please know that!

xoxo,
Melissa
676912 tn?1332812551
I'm so sorry for your loss! I'm not sure what to say, I know no words can comfort you right now. I wish it hadn't happened. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Avatar universal
I am deeply sorry for your loss.I dont know what to say,everything has been going so well and all of a sudden God had something else in mind for you. Nothing can ease your pain and loss except time. I will pray for the strength you need in these difficult times.
1297015 tn?1298250473
Oh hunny, im so sorry! :( you and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers..it was great getting to know you and your babies these past 5.5 months..the pain of loosing a child is unreal..im so sorry you had to go through this, im sure God has a plan for both your husband and for you in the future! stay strong..
980608 tn?1309540251
I'm sorry for you loss.  I can't imagine what you are going through.  As I read your comment I started crying since I too carry two babies and my heart would be broken as I imagine yours is.  You and your husband are both in my prayers are so are the babies.  
Avatar universal
So sorry to hear this tragic story of your Angel baby boy and girl... Glad you and DH at least got heartbeating moments with their precious little souls. I am at a loss of words and hope that the pain eases soon, I cant imagine the loss of any child or two for that matter.

May god bless you with future babies and keep these two angels close to home to watch over you!! I am so sorry :'-(

)))))Hugs(((((
Caralea
1242417 tn?1375927438
I dont know what to say. My heart breaks for you and it scares the living daylights out of me. I can not imagine the pain you are in and I wish you the strength to get though this. You will be in my prayers, I am so so sorry for your loss!!! xoxoxoxoxoxoxxoxoxo
Avatar universal
Tears.....   xxx
1271018 tn?1296536826
Words canno't express the loss you have endured. I am soo sorry.
1244100 tn?1385905528
Many prayers be with you and your family at this time.

God Bless you.

Melissa
594189 tn?1386916607
I'm very sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you. I will keep you in my prayers.
Avatar universal
I'm sitting here with tears streaming down my face. I'm so very sorry for your losses.
889551 tn?1416184483
I am so sorry that this happened to you. I will keep you and your family in my prayers! We're here for you if you need us!
1041303 tn?1421387341
I am so sorry for your losses, you and your DH are in my prayers.
Avatar universal
I am so very sorry for your losses.  I can't imagine the pain and I wish we could all take it away.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.
961574 tn?1520648103
I just wanted to let you know that I have been thinking of you and your dh, and praying for God to heal your heart, and comfort you during this time.  


xoxo,
Melissa
1278093 tn?1294320384
i can't fathom what you are going through but sending sympathy and thoughts to you
1024452 tn?1323708817
I'm so sorry for what you are going through.  I can't imagine!!!   My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband.
1285850 tn?1291776435
I will take a moment of silence to pray for the both of you.
Stand tall in these hurtful times. Noone should suffer a loss of a child.
it is the worst feeling ever, at any stage of life.

My thoughts are with you.  
xoxox
1214816 tn?1326329272
im so sorry for your loss...i cant stop crying...i feel your pain....
i cant imagine how you and your DH are feeling right now.
you are in my prayers...
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