I'm all alone

[Babyyymama]

The relationship I was in was the best I could have asked for. .. until we got pregnant!
Now things have changed an he doesn't have time for me. I'm alone with no family and I didn't want to be just his baby mama! He thinks doin the things that he's obligated to do is enough. We both have children with our previous partners. when a woman is pregnant, this should be such a happy and loving time between the parents. But in my case it had distanced us. Now I realize there are many things I wish I could change about him. He told me he just doesn't like pregnant women. Ouch!so sad and all alone.

[marieclark23]

do you think he would go to couple councilling?

[Christal2145]

I am so sorry to hear that and yes a pregnancy is supposed to be a happy time. I would say maybe you should give him his space and hopefully he will come around once the baby comes. I will be praying for you. Try not to stress it's not good for the baby. Congradulations even in the sucky circumstances.

[AACP06117081]

There shouldn't be an excuse. I made that mistake, with my partner with our first daughter. It was both our 1St child. I missed out on soo  much. When our second came I tried to make up for it. Now were unfortunately separated,& I think she`s prego. Might even be from another guy. I wouldn't even know cause she's in FL & IM in NY. I agree with the couples counseling. It might help. I asked my partner of almost 8yrs to go. She didn't want to, but if this guy cares enough about u he will make the time to try

[managpal]

Talk to ur baby infront of him....caress and pamper ur belly infront of him....show him how you love being pregnant....may be he is hesitant to express.he would start loving..., watch movies with him like what to expect when u are expecting..,,,.tell him when the baby will grow , I want him/her to be like u....we s9metimes have to initiate what we expect from others..,, tell him how the baby would be proud to have a loving father...he will c u with love...