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7 week ultrasound

I had my ultrasound today and after just having a miscarriage, my 6wk 3day old baby is visable with a healthy heartbeat :) I'm happy but unfortunately my bf isn't and says were not ready for this and I don't have any support from him.  I don't know what to do.  I know what I want to do but I feel like it's not fair to have a child with someone who doesn't want one.  I'm so confused!
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try and keep him involved a lot during the pregnancy and hopefully he will warm up to the idea of it and may get excited with you
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He might be scared since youve had a miscarriage before. I would give him time and when the miscarriage period ends let him know and im sure he will be happy even if it takes time to warm up. Its really hard to hang in there when you feel like that but you have to be strong: ) almost every man realizes whats really happening once time goes by and tht belly starts showing :)
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Unfortunately that's not the case.  He's not scared of having a miscarriage he just doesn't want a baby.  He hasn't spoken to me in a week :/  we planned the first pregnancy and while I was pg he didn't want it and put me through hell.  Now he's doing it again.
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