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My husband and i just moved to colorado this year got pregnant in march, here i am 33 weeks, ftm. We have no family here, and hardly any friends. I am just so lonely, i cant stand it, i grew up in north carolina, and have lots of friends and family there. But its just not the same when you dont have someone to keep you company at appointments. Im so ready for my baby girl to be here so at least i can be distracted. I just want some mommy friends, you know? Im probably just super hormonal, just wondering if anyone else is feeling this way, or going through this.
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p.s. and sometimes I just feel like crying cuz honestly i dont have anyone but hubby and i miss my family alot.
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i understand how you feel. All my family and friends live in other states and i dont know anyone. The only family i have here is my in laws and they are not very involved in the pregnancy and seem to brush it off. i even send photos of the baby from my ultra sound in text and got no response.  im lonely a lot of times to but dont know where to begin with moms groups. Honestly, a nice female friend would be awesome!
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Grew up in Colorado and moved to NC where I got pregnant. It is mazing how neighbors, people I meet in line and complete strangers are willing to lend a hand!  I'd recommend trying to get out and meet your neighbors: you have more friends than you realize!
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call 211 nd the hospital where you having the babii,  they should have nice free activities
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ps I'm not far from your hometown
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I moved to Georgia to be with my mom but I dnt have any other family here nd luckily I met one girl that's also pregnant (mii pregnant friend) but I keep busy by going to classes, doctors, lamaze class, breastfeeding class, it's educational plus u meet new ppl
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Hey im due Dec 5th FTM .. with a boy...super excited... I'm not from Colorado either n I feel lonely. .. what doc u go to...maybe we can gt to know each other...
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Maybe you could join a group through the local hospital that you will deliver at... I think hormones get the blame for everything in pregnancy lol! Being lonely is a natural emotion and you have made a big move! Keep in contact with your back home friends through skype or other sites. But like you said once baby gets here it will distract you but then also maybe you can find other new mom's around you! Good luck to you
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