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I am so hurt , I loved this man wit every drop nd the moment I found out I was pregnant he turned his back on us, I'm 36 weeks but it dnt get better as the weeks grow nd me knowing he ain't gne be ah father to our first daughter , Wats wrong with me ??? Why we couldn't just be good parents to our dsughter, I'm feeling like a stereotype now , 23 not married , was in college until I found out I was pregnant but still not finished .... ugh life *****
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Thank yall ,I know I will lose some love for him once I see her but wat if she look like him ugh ....
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i know howu feel as iv been in ur posistion, my son is now 4 soon to be 5.his dad only ever saw him handfull of times in first year. it does get better once ur babe is born u wont care so much for ur ex because ule have a new love for ur baby trust me.ule only b botherd about ur daughter n wnt be botherd if edosent come back or whatever. yeah its sadfor ur child. but all they need is u. uve enough love for ur daughter x
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I'm 34wks along and am not married,  but I still have my partner,  have felt alone most of the pregnancy though
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I'm almost in the same situation! I'm also 36 weeks pregnant and still feel like I'm in love with the father of my child and I feel the same way you do, every kick every move is a reminder how I became a young single mother like everyone else but all we can do is stay STRONG! :) I've heard this from a lot of other mom's, once you see your baby, your so gonna realized the only reason you thought you loved him was because the baby was inside. Hang in there were almost there!! :) soon we will have our babies in our arms and NOTHING and no one else will matter. And that person is right, make sure you put him on child support it your doing him a favor by teaching him to be responsible if his actions. Wish you the best :)
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Call an attorney and get moving on child support.  Sadness and loneliness are not made better by also being broke.
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