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Hi everyone my name is Christina I'm 18 and 8 weeks pregnant.

I work at KFC (8.50 minimum wage)
I work everyday, I litterly bust my butt off everyday to get at least 500 on my checks.

On the other hand my boyfriend doesn't do c r a p !
No job, no income at all!
Sometimes well run out of money and I get so hungry sometime and he can't do nothing about it!
All he wants to do is smoke pot (not around me)
He won't clean when I ask him to, like litterly if no one Cleans the mess , NO ONE WILL BUT ME, I'll come home to the house a mess!
I dont know what to do anymore!
He's 19, and he has nothing but a man with a car. But who fills up the gas tank?! Me.
All he wants to do is smoke smoke smoke, I don't know what to do anymore...
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Christina I definitely agree with jess. You need to find a support group. That baby is relying on you and that means health wise too. Stress is not good for you or her. Maybe he will wake up when she is born but for now he is not good for yall. Prayers for yall. Things will work out if you make it so .
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Hey Christina, I'm Jess. Congratulations on your precious miracle! I'm sorry to hear about your situation with your boyfriend, it sounds so exhausting mentally and emotionally. Do you have any local family or church that could help you when you're hungry and give you guidance about what to do with your bf? I have found genuine people at local church soup kitchens.. or if you don't feel comfortable doing that, you could just call a few churches and ask for help and they should happily guide you to some assistance. there's no shame in asking for a little help no matter if you're rich or poor, we all need each other. :) Also, your state might offer WIC and food stamps for extra food..I have WIC and I'm not ashamed to use it :) I wish I could help more and I hope you find a peaceful solution soon!
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