Sex?

[bay31]

Im 10 weeks and 3 daysMy husband is upset I don'give him sex enough. What do I do to shoe him its nothing he's doing wrong its just I don't feel like having sex all the time? Will it change in time or what?

[louise191216]

Mine wont have sex with me atall not slept together since we found out i was pregnant!we found out at 4weeks im now 10 weeks! It was a planned pregnancy but he wont come near me and wong let me near him either. :( x

[MmmMama1213]

It might change. I'm the opposite. My husband can't keep up with me. Lmao

But maybe after the nausea settles you'll feel more normal.

[bay31]

And to the other ladies thank you so much for the advice. He is getting better luckily. Hopefully he will continue to understand

[bay31]

Louise191216 he said that's how he was gonna be but that's not how he is at all. All he wants to do is be around me. I love that feeling but sometimes it gets aggravating because he likes to take up the entire bed.  And I feel bad for waking him up and making him move but now I just get up and go to the couch. Maybe your husband feels like he's going to hurt the baby or something.

[Mad4dyl]

Well my husband if he could would have sex with me 3 times a day but I can't do that anymore. Guys have their needs and they don't understand ours. But you don't need to be mean about it. Yes they don't understand but just talk to him explain what is happening and eventually either they will understand or they will back off a little if you make sure you don't get mad everytime or upset that they keep asking they will understand that it's not them but if you do get upset or mad they will think it's them. Guys just need their self esteem stroked not necessarily their penis. So make sure to compliment him make him feel sexy and strong and I do believe he won't take it as personally as he does now. It's an ongoing effort.

[Aage]

I think its normal for some pregnant women to go through that. But he should be more understanding

[Christypea]

I'm at 9 weeks and my husband and I have only been intimate 3 times since I found out I was pregnant. Your husband needs to calm down and be more sensitive. You are carrying his child. I hear it gets better in the second trimester.