I'm on the same boat except opposite. They think my due date is March 4th but my LMP was May 21st giving me a due date of Feb 25th. I also know the exact dates I had sex in early June over my possible ovulation dates but there's no convincing them anymore, whatever. I guess only the baby knows when he's ready to be born
Due dates are usually an estimate, also remember you don't have to do anything you don't want to. Have you thought of getting a second opinion? I've been induced, I just ask you to do one thing... keep an open mind about everything. I was so sad and got PPD because I had all these plans in my head as to how my birth was going to go and nothing went to plan. My second birth I had an idea of what I would've liked but I kept an open mind to everything and it was the best birth ever!! :) good luck either way mama.
I guess they don't go by your date of conception bc the sperm can live for a few days before you actually conceive. But idk if that makes sense bc the due date is off by more than that. I believe that the Feb 1st due date is correct given you have 28 day cyles. And with an ovulation date of May 11th that is right on. But "full term" is anywhere from 37 to 42 weeks, 40 weeks is just average gestation. So if you feel that you don't want an induction, don't do it. That baby won't stay in there forever. And you don't have to do everything your doctor wants to do. This is your birth.