I also live in Alabama, and the gift of life was not mentioned to me, but being a ftm I was enrolled in a program called 'centering' and I am not sure if it is the same thing. I will say I was calculated at 8 weeks, they don't really know without doing an ultrasound, but I am also worried because I feel like I wasn't told much about my pregnancy or what to do. In my opinion, if you are worried you may miscarry, I think you should go to the hospital. Do whatever it takes for you to feel OK and safe about this pregnancy. I hope all goes well for you, congratulations and good luck.
I live in Alabama too, & I called a doctor first & they said something about it but I didn't have my insurance yet & I called back & they didn't say anything else about it but call them & tell them your problem & see can they get you in early.