25 and ashamed. Could I become pregnant?

[KatyDt76542]

Sorry for posting this question I know many ask similar things but I can't seem to find an answer to my exact case.
I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time (I was a virgin), it don't last long and I asked him to stop, so he didn't even ejaculate, and we used condom. Two days after I got my period... I thought that was a sign I wasn't pregnant, but then I read that sperm can live up to 5 days inside you.. So I don't know anymore.
Anyway, yesterday I had sex again (for the second time) again I asked him to stop, we used condom and he didn't ejaculate. I expect my period to come in two days. I read that it's important to grab the condom from the base before pulling out..we didn't do that, does that rise my chances of getting pregnant?
Could I get pregnant from any of those cases. I know that if I'm scared I should take a test, but I'm not ready to see a positive even if it's a false one. I'm 25... And ashamed because I'm old, and I should be able to handle sex already, but it still freaks me out. :( I think I'll stop trying to have sex for my mind's sake.

[Trishlbills]

You don't always ovulate 14 days before your period. I would definitely not trust timing. My mom got pregnant when she had sex to days after her period ended. The condom should have done it for you though especially if he really didn't ejaculate. If you are worried about this every time you have sex, that isn't going to be pleasant, though. I would get on the pill so you can have a bit more piece mind. Keep using condoms even afterwards though.

[Notoes]

When you take pregnancy test, you can't really get a false positive, only a false negative. Hope that helps

[pregnantchelsea]

Your body always ovulated 14 days before expected period. You said you had sex couple days before period. There's no way. Especially with condom and no ejac. Trust me. I hope this helps relieve your worries too

[KatyDt76542]

Thank you very much for your time and help. I really appreciate it and I'm very happy to read what you have to say. You make me feel better and are very kind. Have a wonderful day.

[fagi4ka]

I doubt u can be pregnant. Condoms give u 99% change to prevent it, plus he didn't ejaculate. In addition, you can only get pregnant during ovulation (it's typically about 2 weeks after beginning of your period) and, sperm can survive in your body for about a week.
Looks like you've been having sex a few days before the start of ur period, so by then ur eggs would have already died, hence the blood in the period.
Glad u using condom! Its very easy to get std these days, so that's a very smart decision.
There is nothing to be ashamed of too btw, every person is different. But I think its important u educate itself, Idgo visit OB doctor and ask her questions about period, ovulation, how to calculate it all and how to prevent pregnancy. Trust me, she'll only be glad u asked and eagerly explain it all.