I lost my first with mc fell pregnant 2 months later I'm now 9 weeks. I think I was very nervous until I got past the 6.5 week mark where I lost the last one. I don't know about you but my body feels completely different this time and I'm being monitored on an almost weekly basis by either my ob or acupuncturist so have someone reassuring me every week and getting to see bubs on ultra sound every 2 weeks has been amazing. I'm now much calmer although not in the safe zone my ob said to me earlier this week generally it will be earlier than this if something does happen although I don't know how far along you are. Hope this helps.