no heart beat 6-8 weeks need advice

[alymag19]

i went to the obgyn 2 weeks ago and they said i was 6 weeks pregnant, i went back yesterday and was supposed to be 8 weeks but they said i was only 6 weeks again and they couldnt see the baby or hear a heart beat does this mean i'm having a miscarrage i did spot a LITTLE bit of blood but it was a very light pink or a light brown  but i had no cramping or pain at all what does all this mean? i am so scared me and my husband have been trying to get pregnant for about a year this would be our first child and we were so excited is there any hope that everything could be okay or should i just prepare my self for the worst someone please help answer my question i'm freaking out and really scared... i would really appreciate it if anyone had any advice or information on my situation thank you and god bless you all!!!

[rachie204]

well if you arnt sure about when you ovulated then there is a good chance your dates are just off.  A heartbeat is sometimes hard to see at 6 weeks but at 7 is almost visable.  A healthy pregnancy at 6 weeks would at least have a fetus that could be seen.  Do you have any idea when you ovulated?   When was your last period?  

[Kash12]

I am so so sorry alymag. The same thing happened to me 6 months back.. we concvd after trying for a yr and the baby was measuring 6 weeks when I should have been 8. There was no hb either. However we waited out another week and the next U/S showed us little cardiac activity- though not steady. Unfortunately we lost the little beany 4 days later .... no cramping..no spotting...
I hope this doesn't happen to u and maybe ur little one is just a little slow...
FX for u!! I'll keep u in my prayers... hate to be the one to share this sad story...