I think you guys have to come to a MUTUAL agreement, not just try to cut him off. Remember he's not legally tied to you nor the baby (at least not yet) so what would happen if you give him zero tolerance and he's like ok see you later? Do you know what I mean?
Yea we have arguements over it all the time as well . I sure hope things get better .. goodlyck !
Ughh i know how you feel. My boyfriend always wants to go out to parties/clubs and doesnt get that i dont want to go and dont want him always going. he says hes just having his fun while he can and then when the baby comes hell calm down. I understand he doesnt have to change his life completely yet but ive got a hard time believing hes gonna change. i feel like he should start proving it now. it causes a lot.of arguments between us. im working 2 jobs so i have nooo time for any fun time. Youre not alone!!
Hopefully :( I miss my boyfriend.
I know it can be hard to separate, but I'm sure as soon as his friend sees how life is when you've got a pregnant wife, or a child, they usually bail on their best friends to party and what not, so hopefully you don't have to deal with it too long!!
Thank you. I'll sit him down right after work tonight ughh. He even works with his bestfriend, im starting to think they date eachother LOL .
I would just sit him down and tell him this all, calmly, definitely. You are NOT overreacting, and like you said, if he's doing this when the baby is born you're going to really resent him. Tell him what bothers you, and exactly what needs to change, if it doesn't change, then there are consequences of course, but if you don't put your foot down then he'll never learn. Lying is something I will NOT tolerate, even if it's just where he's at, my husband wouldn't think of lying to me, so make sure you address that with him too! Good luck hun!