Same problem here. Hubby wants to name baby like his dad but i don't like the name besides most guys on his family have that name. I want something different but we just can't agree.
We don't have any names for our daughter. We cannot agree at all on any names, so we each have our own list of names but can't seem to come together. It's driving me nuts because I want to be able to have my three year old refer to her by a name so that he has a strong understanding when she arrives.
We create a short list of names, normally 5. Once we get to know our new LO, go pick off that list. With our daughter it just felt right.