BFP!!! should be celebrating but dh almost left me last night :(

[Tiger63]

Last night dh and I fought about so many things! Selling the house, a wedding we are both in that is not catering for Lilly, his job, my casual work and having another baby! He said he was going to leave but once he calmed down we decided that a few days break may help. I have been cranky and tired for a month and have not had my period which is nothing unusual as I have pcos. I did a test last week which was negative. I tested again just before and it was positive! I'm so happy but don't know if I should say anything yet because I really don't want him to stay just because I'm pregnant! What should I do?

[Tiger63]

Thanks everyone! I think all the pressure of a number of issue happening in our lives just complied and ended in a massive fight. We have talked through things and already we both can see eachother trying. It really explains my low level of energy and teariness and crankiness the past week!

Going to drs today!

[ladybugbob1029]

Congratulations girl!!!  I am sorry to hear about you and your hubby, but like zaz said all relationships have issues and kids always bring about more subjects to argue.  I've experienced it myself.  Hang in there and maybe the small break will give you both clarity on the situation.
Did he react well when you told him about the pregnancy?
You are a smart lady so I know you will make the best decision for yourself and your children (yay! plural!).  Take care of yourself and keep us posted on here of how things are going!!!!!!  Some of us can live vicariously through you!

[Crysi]

congratulations!!

[zazou]

Sorry I'm in a rush as it's rather late here and I'm buggered after correcting some work stuff for hubby.

I would say that it really is a blessing to be pregnant again with PCOS, so a big congrats :-) How did hubby react to the pregnancy now that you talked to him? I have to admit I rarely argued with DH before we had Medina, we do that more often now. One topic is also about work. I'm a bit bored at home, I love being a Mum but I have always studied or worked and would like to go back, while he wants me to wait for some clarity in regards to his situation (he's doing his PhD) and wait until Medina is 2. He wants me to work twice a week (voluntarily) within his research group doing the medical/scientific writing for them and I don't want to! I want my own thing. So work is definately a big issue with us as well, the primary at the moment.

Definately discuss things in detail, you have a child together and another one on the way. It's so important to clarify everything so that you have a healthy and stress-less pregnancy. Every relationship has it's ups and downs, but definately talk openly about things instead of keping them under the surface. Tell us what happens with you and congrats again xoxoxoxo

[Tiger63]

Thanks tasia. We had a talk this morning and I told him. A big shock as we had only had unprotected sex twice! We didn't think it would happen so fast. I needed to vent so thanks for listening xo

[Tasia32]

Wow, Congratulations! Sorry to hear about you and your hubby, maybe you can wait a few days to tell him. Only you can decide what is best. A pregnancy is definitely a blessing, Congrats again!