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690039 tn?1277472422

HELP! I am going to have a nameless baby girl!

Im completley freaking out, ladies... We can't come up with a name we both like.  Please help!!  I'm kinda particular---here are my peeves:

1. It can't be *too* popular/common---no mary, jennifer, britney, sarah, tiffany, etc etc  
2. It has to be uncommon without being weird--I gravitate toward strong older names but not grandma names
3. It can't be the latest trend (because then it becomes too popular) like Eva, Ava, Sophie, Isabelle, etc.

I know, I'm a complete pain in the @ss!!  I can't help it!  I have to love my daughter's name :-(  My son's name is Tatum, or Tate for short.  Some of my initial suggestions are: Ainsley, Delaney, Whitley, Shelby, Savannah, Addison, Laurel, Reagan, and possibly Hailey...

For one reason or another, he has either nixed or isn't too keen on each of them.  I really loved Delaney, but there are too many personal reasons he won't allow that one.  My next favorite, considering last name (Brown) is Shelby.  Her middle name will be something meaningful---i.e. Hope or Faith or Mercy or something for what we have overcome in our relationship, or else like after my mom or his mom or something.

I can tell you now, she's going to be tall, with dark hair and dark eyes, with big fat lips (I swear, I already saw them on the ultrasound!!).

Ok.  I'm ready.  Let the suggestions fly!!!

Please please pretty please help me... I know my panic is probably hormones but I'm really freaking out!!
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461781 tn?1285609481
These are some of the names we had picked out if it was a girl, We found out yesterday that it was going to be a boy, so I hope that my list gives you a few ideas.  I don't like common names at all and I go towards the unusual names.

Adelaide
Briseis
Carolina
Ciara
Danica
Gia
Hailey
Laila
Lina
Sienna
Stella
Laia
Aina
Ophelia
Paulina
Marina
Frida
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623156 tn?1322865851
Jess- Meanie I love my name....LOL. I think you should name her summer rose! I love it and I think it's completely fitting for where you live and the time of yr you are delivering her. Let me know wha tyou think!

Hugs,
AP
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641492 tn?1247955514
I had Carlee picked out for a girl - I am having a boy - cant decide between kyle, tyler or nicholas.....
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436469 tn?1248973845
I have also used the The Baby Name Wizard, and so did my friend.  It is a great book, and has lots of cool categories of names.  I have also enjoyed going on the social security administration web site where they list all the top names since like 1910.  We haven't picked a name, it is hard.  We just have the name books sitting out, and when he is in in the mood to look through he will browse and make suggestions, and I take that opportunity to make mine.  If he is not in the mood, then I don't bring it up!  I don't want him to nux a name because he didn't feel like talking about it!
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467707 tn?1270928640
I got a great baby name book at the Pottery Barn kids called "The Baby Name Wizard" by Laura Wattenberg... I like it a lot and found lots of fun ideas and things I just didn't find anywhere else... at 13$, ! highly recommend it!!
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690039 tn?1277472422
Good point... very true.  Argh... i just want to figure it out now.
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719902 tn?1334165183
I agree, when you hear the *perfect* name, you know it is the one.  (My only problem is then getting DH to agree!)  
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613536 tn?1294238447
What about changing a few of the letters in the names that you have already picked or shorten them?

Delaine
Whitney
Addalyn
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551885 tn?1300383822
We are naming ours if it is a girl Saige.  Delaney is what my mom really wanted, but when DH came up with Saige it just felt right.

We had such a hard time with names and then one day it just came to us...hey, you still have time LOL!
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756023 tn?1338520435
I like the names:

Layla
Rena
Caydence
Grace
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568659 tn?1256139982
Oh I like the name Wyn or Wynn.
I always loved Layla when I was pg with Noah.
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719902 tn?1334165183
We think along the same lines-  My DD's name is Reygan Delaney- love it!!!

I also like:
Mia Grace
Savannah
Tierney
Wyn
Addison is cute for first or middle name..
Cierra
Keely
Leilani
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214607 tn?1287677559
Love the names

Olivia
Leighton
Addison
Kaiden

and I am naming my daughter Kaelyn Jaye
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568659 tn?1256139982
Hailey is VERY popular now so I would steer away from that.
I like the name Scarlet....
I also like your ideas of Addison and Savannah.
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639543 tn?1297027634
I had Vaida Jade picked out for a girl! :] - Havin' a boy though haha so there goes that name.
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Here were the other names my DH and I had wrote down before we settled on our DD name.

Caitlyne
Rose
Sky
Hayleigh
Sage
Eve
Gweneth
Hazel

The last 3 I'm not fond of. DH picked those.

Good luck.
For our next DD we decided on Alexis Cyanne.
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