I can relate! I have a 3 year old that doesn't listen ever since I brought baby home. I worked for 2 years straight so my maternity leave is 2 Months. Now that I'm here he expectant dinner house clean all the housewife duties. I can't do all that n he wants it done every day! Hello I'm not on vacations buddy! He doesn't help and if he has to pick up something up I have to hear a long talk about coming home from work n cleaning up, like relax! It's 100x harder to stay home do what I do. I constantly have to tell him to get my toddlers things ready when we go out. I've been doing this for 3 years n his ovethere using his cell phone acting like he doesn't know what to do! Then complains I take to long.
I can relate! I have a 3 year old that doesn't listen ever since I brought baby home. I worked for 2 years straight so my maternity leave is 2 Months. Now that I'm here he expectant dinner house clean all the housewife duties. I can't do all that n he wants it done every day! Hello I'm not on vacations buddy! He doesn't help and if he has to pick up something up I have to hear a long talk about coming home from work n cleaning up, like relax! It's 100x harder to stay home do what I do. I constantly have to tell him to get my toddlers things ready when we go out. I've been doing this for 3 years n his ovethere using his cell phone acting like he doesn't know what to do! Then complains I take to long.
I can relate! I have a 3 year old that doesn't listen ever since I brought baby home. I worked for 2 years straight so my maternity leave is 2 Months. Now that I'm here he expectant dinner house clean all the housewife duties. I can't do all that n he wants it done every day! Hello I'm not on vacations buddy! He doesn't help and if he has to pick up something up I have to hear a long talk about coming home from work n cleaning up, like relax! It's 100x harder to stay home do what I do. I constantly have to tell him to get my toddlers things ready when we go out. I've been doing this for 3 years n his ovethere using his cell phone acting like he doesn't know what to do! Then complains I take to long.
I just flipped on DH the other day about this.
Saturday he was sleeping on the recliner and I had my toddler that needed lunch and a cranky baby that constantly likes to be held. But he's laying there friggin sleeping!!! It annoys me so bad. I yelled and said "little help here". I know he works all week but his job is a thousand times easier than what it is to stay home and watch these 2!! And it's his choice to wake up even earlier to go to the gym.
Then he goes to say "oh I didn't get a lot of sleep last night" are you kidding me??? Ugh!!
ya the hard part is they really can't do much in the way of feeding if you are breast feeding. My little lady has days and nights confused. So I'm up all day and all night right now and cry most of the day due to being over tired. Tomorrow is my first day alone with baby and dogs im a little worried.