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favoritism with kids

Today I kinda go annoyed with my husband. I'm 25 weeks with our first child together and we both have one kid each from previous relationships. So I'm annoyed because I told him in a joking way that this baby is going to be just like him because she been giving me so many different troubles since the beginning. So his reply was I already have a kid like me. And it kinda bothered me because he already treats the two kids we have differently and now I feel like he's going to treat this baby differently. I don't know I might be being to sensitive but the way he said it made me feel like he already has his favorite so no other kid will be like him.
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I would say talk to him about your concerns.
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It is understandable for him to feel more attached to his kid than yours. I don't think that is something you can expect him to change. But he will love this little girl too! Don't stress too much and definitely have a a reasonable conversation when you aren't so worked up.
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