OT but need to vent!!!

[MIMI1980]

Am so hurt and confused found out that my bf has been speaking to an ex and telling her he loves her and misses her!!! I confronted him yesterday as i was devastated and didnt know what to think and he said that he was looking for comfort in idle words!!! What the hell does that mean!! He said its because i have been a bit of a pain in the *** since i have been pregnant but as far as im concerned that is beside the point. Am i overreacting or is he a total rat for doing this. i was so stressed out about it all that i ended up with a stress headache and woke up at 2.30am this morning and i had swollen up like a puffer fish and the headache was so bad i had little dots dancing around at the corners of my eyes. Have made an appt. at the docs to be on the safe side as i still have the headache and slight swelling. Am so upset and dont know what to do!!!

[Skylynns_mom]

hahahah your just like me.....i get bored soooo easy...although i sure could use some rest, not that i have the time for it.  Good luck with everything though.

[MIMI1980]

Thanks hon, Still trying to decide what to do. Went to the doctors and blood pressure was slightly elevated so have been told to take it easy for the next couple of days which is a bummer as i was decorating so am now going to have to put it off for a couple of days and just rest. Am not the best at resting i get bored very easily!!! But as you said i dont want to harm my little man so i am listening to the doc.

[Skylynns_mom]

I think thats bullsh it.  If i found out that my man was doing that I'd personally kick his a s s to the curb.  Every pregnant woman is a pain in the A S S, that is no excuse to go running around telling your ex's that you miss them and love them.  If he isn't cheating already, sure sounds like he will be....personally i would consider that cheating.  I'm not telling you to leave him, just saying that it is VERY wrong for him to be doing that and if i were in the same position I'd leave.....I've been there done that with my daughters spermdonor, he moved in with the girl a week later.  So i have serious lack of trust when it comes to that.  But good luck and try to stay as calm as you can, you dont want to hurt that baby.