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Having a real emo day!

Its my mans bday so his mates are coming to spend the weekend and "get on it". Its something that I would normally be doing with them and im feeling so left out. Plus im working all weekend. And then on Monday he goes away for a week for work. Going from a party animal to a mum is really hard right now :( im so proud of myself for getting this far. But all afternoon I just keep wishing I wasnt preg so I can drink and have my life back. I took him to the shops to buy some clothes for his bday and I just felt so fat and ugly. Hes in such a happy mood and im in the worst mood. Im trying not to put a downer on his day. But I know nothing will be how it used to. Someone please just tell me its my head being stupid! :(
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Thanks guys. Atleast im not the only one that feels like this. My bday is at the end of June so hopefully I'll get a drink or two in then. Christmas and new years was sooo hard. And I hope I do forget all about the parties when she gets here.
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915119 tn?1341948989
Girls don't worry, the important thing is to stay healthy for your babies. I've never been a drinker so I don't understand, but yes, I know sometimes pregnancy gets in the way. This weekend my hubby plans on going jet skiing, but I will not be able to go =( For the last 3 years I have been unable to go. First, I was pregnant with my daughter, then the following year  I was nursing so I couldn't leave her (she wouldn't take a bottle) and this year, well I'm pregnant again. Girls, once you have your baby, you will realize it's all worth it and most mothers change thier priorities in life. When your babies arrive, you will forget about all those parties and all that drinking.
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2032869 tn?1333989114
I had morning sickness on my birthday :-/
. I totally feel you. Being pregnant gets hard when you see everyone else having fun.
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I so know how you feel i turned 18 a month ago and its my partners birthday next weekend so im going to have to do the whole look after them all while they are drinking. so for my 18th everyone got wasted but me and now for his 20th him and all his mates will be drinking ***** but once this baby is here that is the last thing that will be on my mind.
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