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Decreased sex drive!!!

I'm 9 weeks and ever since I've been pregnant, I haven't been in the mood to have sex. And when my boyfriend and I do have sex, I'm not aroused as aroused as I would've been if I wasnt pregnant. Is it only me?!? Lol any advice
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You're most definitely not alone. My husband and I haven't had sex in about 2 to 3 weeks. And if we have I tell him to get his and we are done. He understands that I am always tired and don't feel good but I feel so bad :(
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I have wanted it more this time. My first was 9 yrs ago and baby daddy left but I never craved sex like I do now with my hubby. I'll be 11 weeks on sunday
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When I was pregnant with both my boys to wanted sex all the time up til the last couple weeks but this time I could care less so hopefully those wisetales are right would love a little girl but its up to God . good luck and congrats
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Yeah me too! Before I got pregnant I wanted sec like 2 times a day. Now I never want it but I have sec with my partner to make him happy. He doesn't ever ask to have sec or anything he is very supportive but I guess having sex with him is kinda like a reward for being so patient with me? Idk. It sounded better in my head. But anyways. I've heard (wives tales) that if you have no see drive that it's a girl ;) we will never know till a sono proves us wrong though !
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I'm the same way as all 3 of you. I don't even want to do it anymore honestly. I'm just about 10 weeks!
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No you're not alone. I am the same way. I'm usually into sex but lately I'm just like, "hurry up get yours." Which i feel bad but, thank god my husband is very comprehensive and doesn't get upset about it.
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No you're not alone I'm 9 weeks as well and I DON'T want sex at all, and the times that my husband and I do have sex I feel so fat and so not sexy that I just want it to be over. But I must say that he is handling the situation really well, well I hope that he is :(
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