Depression

[Laceyjade]

well it took awhile but depression has hit me hard...I cry just about everyday or little petty thing and personal problems I don't know how to deal with. My husband and I were married in October and it seems like in just the last month or so we have become very distant...he says we spend to much time together and I'm clingy...not really sure how to handle it since we have always done everything together so how do I give him space now and feel like he's not trying to leave?!? Plus on top of it I'm dealing with a new management position at work, a lot of back pain, from this pregnancy and kidney stones which the doctors will do nothing for (just told me to drink lots of water) it's all becoming very overwhelming and I don't know how to get my life back on track. Help?

[newbee18]

Its rough! Me n my boyfriend of a year been very distant to. No sex in 6 weeks. He never trys to do it with me and I was super mad about it for awhile and now I'm fine with it. Were not as close. I wanted to leave him loads of times but realized that its not his fault. I was blaming him for ALL my pains and non sleepless nights but I can't. Now were fine. No wherw near as closw as we once was but its working because of the love that we have together

[absquared]

I'm not much help,but I understand what you're going through in regards to being depressed and feeling overwhelmed.  I've been on bedrest since 20 weeks (31 weeks now) and I've officially lost it. I'm not handling my stress well and my husband and i got into a horrible fight last night. I did talk to a therapist online today and next week we'll talk with a minister from our church. Hope it's enough to keep us going.