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[Slh13]

So aside from the pregnancy issues. I need some personal advice or someone who could relate. My husband and I are just 20(military couple). We miscarried a few months back and we were devastated. We wanted to try again but it was hard so we stopped worrying about having another for now bc I'm in nursing school. So my problem is I'm kind of young and...

[Slh13]

Thanks!! That helped to just get advise from someone doing it.  Were you pregnant while in school?

[JaeMama]

And busy? I'm roughly 6+5 with my second and I'm in school full time as well. It's doable you just have to prioritize. Set a schedule and work hard to maintain it. You and your husband are a team you both have to agree on your individual responsibilities. Maintaining steady and calm communication is fundamental to your relationship and your sanity as mom. He may need to pick up more work than he's use to around the house to help you out, help alleviate potential resentment by making it clear to him verbally and physically (not necessarily sex but physical touching: hugs, kisses, shoulder rubs, random little touches) how much you appreciate his help and that this baby increases your love not decreases it. Sleep when the baby sleeps. Take care of yourself because if you aren't taking care of yourself you can't take care of your baby. Hope this helps.