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im 24 weeks in it seems like since I've been pregnant my husband doesn't wanna be sexual with me. He claims to be "tired" but fines energy to do other things that are just as tiring. It makes me feel bad about myself like I'm very unattractive. Then I start to worry about cheating, but I highly doubt he'd ever cheat.
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As weird as this sounds... sorry! But, I let my partner do things that he's always wanted to do to me and that will usual get him going. Try new things. Make it interesting or funny that has him cracking up laughing
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Get some sexy lingerie, light some candles, and give him a striptease. I bet he has sex with you after that.
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My hubby is always afraid he will hurt the baby and he thinks it is weird being there is a little human inside me!
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My hubby is not as interested as his was in the beginning mostly because once he saw spotting and it scared him so now he stays away. Every once in a while he tries and i turn him down due to random pains. We might have to wait til the end of may to try. It will be fun using sex to start labor when it's time.  I look forward to that :)
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Hehehe are you waiting for him to initiate?? I ask this bc when I first got married I thought I was supposed to wait for my husband to make a move however as the months went by I realized my husband is not that type of guy... I literally am the one who initiates every sexual encounter and I don't really care to be honest he always responds excellently lol!!
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That's how my husband was with our first. He was so scared of hurting the baby and something being wrong with the baby. He didn't want to do anything that could jeopardize the baby. No matter the evidence I showed him or talking to dr's. I know it's not the same but you can play with yourself too. :-0. It's hard because you don't feel attractive anyway. With all the joys pregnancy brings, fatigue, swelling, cramping, not being able to put shoes on, etc. And all you want is some passion. Men just don't understand. Hang in there. Things are different now with our 3rd pregnancy.  
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He could just be scared of hurting yalls baby. Dont worry about it :) it will be ok. Some times you just have to take your clothes off and get on top of him and do your thing. If he doesnt get horny then I would worry. But it should work :P
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