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trying to plan a bby but it's not possible

Ok so me and my husband were planning a bby we are ready for it l. I get my period usually on the 14th we tried on the 10th and the same day that he came inside me I still got my period it usually last a week but this time it only lasted 4days. We are going to try again after my period is it still possible to get pregnant. Or how can I figure out my cycle is it possible that my period is shorter because he came inside me . I need help
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We also struggled to fall pregnant. Then someone told me to buy chinese green tea and detox with that for about a month. Then leave it. Start having sex on day 10 from when your period started. Two months after my detox I got the second line. I was 4 weeks pregnant. I am now 30 weeks.

Best of luck to you and don't give up.
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I tracked my period for four months, than I went to talk to my doctor,and he told me what to do and when,I got pregnant the next month...Good luck:)
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Have sex everyday. Try get out of the 'baby trying' and just for fun and love. Try different types of sex, if you stick to the same play, it might seem like a job. Try kink it up, expand your boundaries. You'll only enjoy it as well as hopefully conceive.  

People say get drunk, have sex and it could take place unexpectantly.

But I had a shorter period when I conceived tmi, so I was further than I thought. Don't give up :) if it becomes too much of a problem... Speak to your doctor? Might be able to help x
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From your explanation you're having sex at the wrong time. You want to have sex 10-14 days after the first day of your period, not right before it comes. So, if you menstrate 3/14...try to get as much sperm inside you as possible 3/25-3/30...somewhere in that window, you should have ovulated increasing your chances at getting pregnant...good luck and have fun!
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My advice is just to try to have sex as much as possible and enjoy it. I spent a whole year trying to concieve with no luck. Hundreds of ovulation tests and tracking everything. I finally just decided to give it up and focus on something else and we concieved our beautiful 2nd daughter in September and am due june 10th. Sometimes you put your body under too much stress trying to time everything out.
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Download P Tracker, it will tell you your ovulation days according to your cycle. . Thats what I used and my period used to be irregular, it helps keep track of your menstruial dates and intercouse dates. Good luck :)
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Look up NFP or Fertility Awareness Method. Tracking your temperature and cervical fluid should make it a lot easier to figure out when you'll ovulate.
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Just have sex everyday it's more fun that way ha ha ... or buy ovulation strips then you will know for sure but the sex is a little mechanical so I wouldn't tell your husband on the days your ovulating
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Download ovulation app. I used lady timer.,do it quick coz you are most fertile a few days after period. At least thats what mine said And it worked for me. Its a good guesstimate for your ovulation date too. Good Luck future Mama. And try not to worry nerves can start playing your dates around just relax and have fun with your man till it happens!!
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It would be better to get the ovulation test kit because the app only tells u when u could possibly ovulate but that may not be true because u could ovulate early or late depending on ur body
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Download the app. My days
It helped me get pregnant. Tells you when u are ovulating and tracks for period
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