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tough stuff...

Hi ladies! Well I am very happy to be expecting. BUT... This will be my 5th pregnancy with no living children :( so I'm very very scared it will happen again but doctors have said that all my test have come back and are excellent! I saw his/her little heart beat and it melted my heart. So with being high risk I find it hard to stay calm, not stress and keep food down! Plus I'm moving from California back home to Texas in about 15days now that hubby has medically retired out of the military ( I'm currently 8W 4D ) so any mommies been in my shoes need some advice or up lifting words. :)
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I kinda had that same feeling of not being so attached even when I saw the little heart. I mean I love it regardless just always that thought in the back of my head. You ladies have been very kind with your warm words I thank you all!
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Send positive thoughts your way... Hope this is IT.  I've had losses before and having a difficult time to attach emotionally to this pregnancy.  I know how you feel.  Hope your doctors figured out what's causing your RPL and is taking better care of it this time.  Relaxing and de-stressing always help though.  Good luck with moving!
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Positive thoughts!!! Get in contact with a gynecologist when you get home.  It's very important that in high risk pregnancies,  you're in contact with a gynecologist;  they can, sometimes,  detect issues your doctor can't.  
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It's such a scary thing waking up every morning but this one feels different so I have high hopes but there's a plan for everything :)
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I'll pray for you GL!!!!
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This is my seventh pregnancy. I have two living children and four angels. I'm 7w1d today and am convinced I will be worried the entire pregnancy, but definitely until I get to second trimester. My last birth was in 2007 and three of my losses were after that. It's very difficult, but try to stay as calm as positive as possible. Have you had any tests done to see if there is a reason for your losses?
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I am on my 3rd pregnancy 8w 6d no living children I totally understand how you feel just be positive and try to your best ability to do everything in your power to keep that baby healthy...
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Thank you all!! :)
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Praying for you! I know God will help this pregnancy go great.
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Stay positive and dont worry. Things will go f9 and take really gud care of urself. That shd only b ur priority now.
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So happy for you! Please take it easy and get ample rest. Im the same, after mc in aug, we are now at 11 wks but there isnt one second in the day that I am not worried. The shock just hit me really hard last time. Was tossing and turning last night, fearing the worst. We saw baby last week, all dancing and would love to see him/her next wk at our 12 wk scan fit and healthy...but gotta have faith it will all work out. Enjoy the new adventures and all the best!
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Fingers crossed for u Hun! Stay positive... Stay happy... x
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