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I am a young mom and I just wondered how many young women have been looked down or harshly judged for being pregnant, I'm having twins and today I had someone tell me that I should kill myself rather than have my kids because I'm too young even though I'm almost 20. I am married and I honestly don't think it's anyone's business.
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Dont pay attention to people..i had my first child when i was 19 almost 20..and i really just ignore people whats done its done..i also kinda short of plan that baby of course now i say we plan to get pregnant but not how much money it would cost..either way we made it and its a blessing from God..God have ya this lil one for a reason and thats all the matters...stay strong!!!
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I am 22 i got married recently and got pregnant on my honeymoon. I get looks all the time, i look younger than i am and my husband (23) looks like hes 25ish. Even at the doctors we get stares, the nurse laughed at us and didnt believe us when we told her the baby was planned.it makes me feel terrible abd instead of being happy for me they say hurtful things even told ne to not get attached ti the baby because im in my first trimester  i might lose the baby, i have a perfectly healthy baby so far...its just wrong, you are not alone. Hang in there
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