Second trimester, miscarrage

[babyhope1]

Hey ladies, I know you guys don't even know me or care for that matter but for what it is worth I am out of this forum.  I am 31 years old and have no children, I am pregnant with a dead baby, one twin died at 7 weeks, after we saw the heartbeats, the other at 10 weeks. My DH and I have ttc for 22 months.  I have tried Clomid, IUI, acupuncture.  I had cervical cancer at 23 and had part of my cervix removed, cervical incompatence.  I will take a pill to kill the placenta and abort the dead remaining fetus. Take vicadin for the pain every 4 hours.  I guess if anyone cares I could let you know how it goes. Anyone have experience with this?  Anyway, best of luck to all of you, hope you hold a little Pieces in your arms next year.

[justice6920]

Oh Hunny I am so sorry your going through this.... and WE DO CARE!! So please dont ever think that.... just bc we all dont know each other face to face doesnt mean we dont greive for you and your loss and that your not in our thoughts and our prayers! Beacuase you are! I know right now that no words can help.... but just know that we are all here for you if ya ever need anyone to talk to we are here!

[Jem75]

i am so sorry to hear of your pain and losses. when you need a little support to get you through the hard days - please check back in. This forum is here so no one has to go through the tough stuff alone.

[babyhope1]

Thanks for all your nice comments, nobody knows what to say or do so I guess that is normal... I opted not to have the D & C because they offered me a medication called misoprostol which is a medical alternative to the surgical procedure.  They will do a ultrasound in two weeks to see if all the tissue is gone.  I just put 4 pills up my personal parts (better because you do at home) and take vicadin for the pain.  Thanks for all of your invitations to stay in the forum but is best for me to leave behind "what could have been."  Best of luck to you all, you are never officially out of the woods but lets just say the trees are getting thinner for you.  Count your blessings.  With the miscarrage of twins after loosing my "second mom" my aunt, in my arms March 4th to Pancreatic Cancer 46 days after her diagnosis.  I am three down in the past 5 months. Goodbye and I truly wish you pure happiness and the hope that is yet to come for you all...I have to be positive and think that the peaks of good times are even better when the valleys of bad times run deep.  Hopefully, it will only get better from here.

~Babyhope1

[ovaz129]

Wow... you have really been through a lot.  I am sorry to hear that the babies passed away.  That is really tough... and I can only imagine what you are feeling right now.  I am not sure how far along you were, but it might be easier on your emotions and might be easier on your body if you have a D & C.  I had one at 15 weeks and am happy that I did... PM me if you have any questions.  Again, sooo sorry to hear the news :(

[G_S]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss...cant imagine how you would be feeling...but am sending you lots of prayers. Hope u recover fast and get your well deserved pregnancy back soon after u start trying. try to take some rest and feel better.

[evthing4reason]

I am so sorry you are going through this, after all the other stress you have had in your life. People do care! Know that you are not alone in your suffereing and that yoiu are in our thoughts

[tea_berries]

I am praying for you my friend.

[AmyC311]

OMG that is awful. :( I can't imagine how painful this must be for you. Please let us know how you are doing and hopefully we will see you on here in the future with a success story. My prayers are with you.

[mygoode]

I am so very sorry for your loss.  I cannot imagine what you are going through and therefore cannot find words, but we do care and you're in my prayers.