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hey every1

hi every1, 5 weeks 6 days pregnant and terrified of having a m/c. had a m/c last year and cannot settle until i know that everything is ok. :/
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My 1st scan isn't until the 3rd of September! Feels like years away! I get days wer I just don't feel pregnant anymore. I hope everybody's scans go well, wish I cld fast forward 18 days! Lol
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Around this time last yr I had a miscarrage too. I'm freaking out but I've tried to calm myself down by staying busy. All looks good but a lil part of me is still scared.
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wow last sentence was suppose to say.. "If nothin is detected".lol, sorry
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Thanks, yes appt today went well, all looks great, heartbeat 171bpm.  I will probaly worry for the next serveral months cause I just cant control it.
I do ant to share this though, the scan today was done on my belly and NOT vaginally at first and thats where they saw baby and heartbeat. When she went in to see vaginally after she couldnt see anything.  Thats cause my uterus is slightly tilited and I am backed up (bowels). I wanted to share this for anyone that is getting early scans and techs are not even attempting belly scans at this stage.  KIf somehting is dected, it may not mean that the baby is not there!!!
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hi this is my 2nd preg and i worried like hell on my 1st but yes i never had sickness breasts stopped hurting so much around 9 weeks i hsd spotting after 8 &12 wk scan but all was ok i havent had time to dwell the ifs this time round although this baby is v much wanted. just try and relax eadier ssid than done i know xx
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hi this is my 2nd preg and i worried like hell on my 1st but yes i never had sickness breasts stopped hurting so much around 9 weeks i hsd spotting after 8 &12 wk scan but all was ok i havent had time to dwell the ifs this time round although this baby is v much wanted. just try and relax eadier ssid than done i know xx
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I can relate, I can not relax at all. Im in the week that I had my missed miscarriage now and if my boobs arent completly sore when i wake up or im not sick to my stomach im back to feeling like im dommed. I have appt tomorrow but I just cant relax at all.  If I could sleep through the day for it to go quicker I would but my son wants to go out.
Anyone else have symptoms that some days are there and some days not?
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2119134 tn?1350050210
When is your first visit? Until then, like louie says stay busy and positive. Keep yourself calm, rested and keep up your nutrition.
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try to keep busy, distract yourself. window shop online for baby for fun and to stay positive. i know exactly how you feel and i hope you get to hear a heart beat or have an ultrasound soon. Its a horrible feeling waiting to make sure everything is okay. my heart goes out to you.
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Its a horrible feeling. Every 1 says relax and it will be fine but that's so hard 2 do. Hope everything goes ok 4 the both of us! :)x
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I had one last year as well and now I'm due April 2013. I know exactly how you feel. Be sure to discuss it with your doctor.
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