Breastfeeding

[Breee_OH]

I have had strong doubts about wanting to breastfeed. No particular reason just not something I've ever looked forward to. I know many mom's say they loved the bond and it's better for the baby but Im leaning closer to not doing it. Pros & cons anyone? Honestly. Any suggestions?

[maggie574]

Pros: as mentioned, lots of health benefits. Less expensive than formula (formula is crazy expensive). Easier over all, in my opinion...no mixing, measuring, heating, or waiting...middle of the night feedings are a lot easier to feed and get back to sleep (with baby#2, she slept in our room for the first while and i wouldn't even have to get out of bed...just sit up, reach over to get her, and get done).  
Cons: you are definitely primary (but I was going to be anyway, and we made a deal that he would be a major contributor for diapers and baths.) I think it can be a little more stress at the beginning, as you are both learning a new skill! Especially true if you have latching issues or supply concerns, but once you get into a routine and are better at it, the stress goes away (for me it did...and baby#2 was lots less stressful, right from the beginning!) Pumping is annoying. It can be painful at first. I used to call baby#1 my little baracuda because it hurt until my nipples toughened up (about 1-2 weeks, not too long!)

Over all, I'd always recommend it to anyone who can...the health benefits alone for me make the difference, all the other pros are bonuses and the cons aren't that big of a deal for me.

[Breee_OH]

Omg thank you so much for your insight. I will definitely keep those points in mind while Figuring out my decision. We have the same thoughts on bonding but as far as health and what she'll eat that is very important to me so I appreciate u telling me that. I'll know for sure soon. Thank u so much!

[Kathy2015]

Hmmm... well pro it definitely helps with their immune system. I tried with my first and she took to it instantly but I never made enough milk so she had to bottle feed too. She lasted 4 (I lasted) weeks doing both and she is hardly ever sick. My second never really latched on correctly which hurts. Only lasted 2 weeks with her and I can honestly say she gets sick quite a bit.
Bonding is moot to me. Your baby will bond best with its primary care giver. Whether breast or bottle you can still look into those beautiful eyes and talk to them. No matter what that's the best bonding.
I also notice that my first has a taste for more foods, especially veggies, than my second. They say that cones from the womb and later the breast as what you eat flavors your milk.
As far as cons go... it's hard to get much rest when you are the exclusive source of your baby's food. Even pumping so dad or grandma can feed takes time from resting. Second, its a big commitment. If you aren't prepared it can feel more like a chore than a joyous event.
No matter what it's your decision. Don't let anyone bully you either way. It's not their baby or their breasts.