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Painful sex?

I love my husband and I really wanna have sex again, but I am finding it hurts every time we try, so I loose interest very fast. I don't know what to do. I feel bad that I am letting both him and myself down. Anyone else experiencing anything like this?
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I am 18 weeks prego. Me and my boyfriend had trouble n the beginning having sex. We found positions that are are comfortable and painless. I admit more often than not I am not in the mood,but i do it anyway. Hopefully u will find something that works for the both of u! Good luck
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I am 18 weeks and like a few months ago me and my husband had sex and i started bleeding so now we aren't aloud to do anything sexual till after the baby its hard but it's Goethe best so I know what you mean
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I've experienced that now and I'm pregnant with my second also. At first it hurts but after some time it starts to feel better and the pain goes away.
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I know alot women that have the same problem and so do I . I read that sometimes during pregnancy a woman's vagina swells up and almosts creates the effect that the vagina is tightening and getting smaller. Its perfectly normal and will go away after birth. I find it easier to have sex with a lot of foreplay and going slow.
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Were u tested For any other infections?
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Had myself checked for a yeast infection and it isn't that :( thanks for the suggestions though. I am 17weeks pregnant and am now getting scared to have sex :(
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I agree with the ladies here, it could be a yeast infection
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I had this problem during the first trimester. I'm 16 weeks now and I think the pain stopped about 3 weeks ago.
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I had that problem and it turned out to be a yeast infection.  Hope you find out something that works for you!
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Maybe be extra loving in other ways--massage, hugs, kisses, make him special dinner.  Try lots of different positions too.
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Could be a yeast infection. Call your doc and. Ask. Relax your muscles down there during sex and always use a good lubricant.
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