need some advice girls...

[Ria95]

My boyfriend has a 6 year old daughter from a previous relationship which ended about 2 years before we got together. Iv never worried about him going to his exs to see his daughter but when she found out I was pregnant he says she made him feel really guilty and they ended up sleeping together last Monday then on the Wednesday hetold me he was giving his brother a lift but went and slept with her again.. He then Came back and acted totally normal....It wasn't till the Thursday morning I was on his phone and found message saying I can't wait to see you tonight then you looked so sexy tonight and something about him being great with his fingers I was shaking so much when  I saw it I dropped the phone it took him ages to admit it to me but I'm 9 days away from my due date he says he wants to be here with me and the baby and he's so sorry but do you think ill ever be able to trust him again? I can't stop looking at his phone but he deletes everything now :/

[nelson9babies]

Sweetheart, i am so sorry you have to deal with this. Its not right at all. if he is deleting messages he probably has stuff he's trying to hide, though. My ex did the same thing and he kept on seeing another girl.

[Waiting4Baby2]

Ouch! All i have to say is do you want YOUR daughter to date a man that does that to her because that is the kind of role model she is unfortunately getting now :-( hard to say and hard to act on it but id pack his stuff and hopefully you have family to help you!

[SEA89]

I'm sorry that you have to go through this, especially now being so close to your due date.. You don't deserve to go through this at this time.. I hope you make a smart decision for your own good and your baby's too... I would definitely not forgive if I were you.. I'd go to family and friends for support. You don't need a man like that in your life..  I wish you the best sweetie! Keep your head up, you're worth a lot more than the way he's treating you! Respect yourself and love yourself first..

[carla1019]

So sorry to hear this! Right now your #1 priority is to keep your baby safe. That means stop looking through his phone, it will only keep you upset and the baby can feel that stress.

Have you put your foot down and told him this behavior is unacceptable?  Actions speak louder than words, so show him you are serious. Go stay with family or friends.

Best of luck!

[jenjeng]

Make your child number one and don't be with him right now, you deserve better. Your going to be a mother and that is beautiful and empowering.