So after looking and using this site for multiple answers as I didn't understand if I was going through "contractions" or had the "show" I've finally gave birth to a healthy baby boy on the 25 th :) I'm currently being monitored tho as developed pre eclampsia during labour and blood pressure is really high, just wanting to go home now and get settled with baby and routine! Although labour hurt waaaayyy more then I thought it would, my little boy is well worth every bit of it :) so goood luck guys :)