Ok Dh is really trying to get me to snap!

[kikicoates78]

Ok So as you all know he is still being a big baby about the money he wanted to spend on his car, so he has instead of being "MAD" at me or argueing whatever he has been putting in very little jabs just provoking me! GGRRR....Jeremy is a smart A$$ anyways and honestly it's one of the things I find attractive about him, he is hilareous, but lately his "jokes" have been more attitude! I finally said I am to the point where I don't know if your joking or just being a ***** to me! He said "I don't know!" I finally snapped a little and said if you have somthing to say to me F'ing say it, quit this I'm mad but not $hit! Of course he dropped it and left some loan receipts that he paid off instead laying on the table, OH WHHHAAA He did the grown up thing with his money for a change! GGRR With the money he is not paying out on the loans he can save for his stupid car! He can seriously have what he want in 4 months time!

Well last night he brings up Addy's name which again all knows we can't agree, So he says he wants her middle name to be Scot, after him....HELLO he knows we are having a girl. He also JABS.. "It has meaning to me" Give me a break, the onlt reason he said that, is it's my REASON for liking Lynn, after me and my mom! What a butt, well I didn't feed into the arguement, and said well we will talk about it, I want you to be happy, and if it means that much to you I'm open for discussion as long as your not doing it out of spite... PUKE.... I hate making myself be nice right now!! LOL

I guess I should have put this in the crank forum, LOL  

But really should I let him beleive I'm OK with Addyson Scot to see if he is just bluffing and being spiteful????

[kikicoates78]

Mandy ~ yes I am truly blessed :) i had a little cry thank you session at the shower I was truly overwhelmed, I think I had more people at my shower than my wedding, She has been much anticipated for many of years, This is the first Grandchild/Greatgrandchild on my Dh side....So everyone is a little excited to say the least.

[mandy38]

your really lucky to have so many good people in your circle, I'm glad you had a great day and you and hubby are ok again!!

[kikicoates78]

So far that's wheat I have done. Tonight at the shower people kept asking and we got mixed reveiws on Scot, some liked it, others laughed and thought he was just being silly, but then after tonight, I really think he is serious and likes the name??? I'm still not mentioning it again for a while. We did have a make-up talk.... So he has been back to my perfect husband today. I'm sure he didn't want to ruin my night!

The shower was crazy by the way! I have never seen so many gifts in my life! I got tired of opening presents! LOL I have to say for once all the showers I have thrown or went ovwer board on.......they definately remembered me when my turn rolled around. I felt great and guilty all at the same time, great to see the actually rememberd but guilty that they did so much. Either way this little girl is SET!!! I am officially ready now, there is nothing that I didn't get:)

I'll post pics it was gorgeous!! Of course as controlling and bossy as I am......Yes I was in charge of decorations! HeHe

[mandy38]

I actually really like Addyson Scot-Lynn, I would say find a way to compromise... let him think he's in control when we all know who rules the roost!!

[Joyce49788]

agree with hkenny...definately fight for JoLynn.

[hkenny]

plus by mentioning 2 middle names you can see how serious he really is!! lol

[hkenny]

i would leave it alone to be honest! hard i know but i find if i ignore my husband being stupid it makes him feel dumb b/c hes not getting to me.  my only other suggestion is to do what we are doing, have 2 middle names. i was soooooooo not crazy about doing it but since we both agreed on the first name and i always said her middle name would be after my mom, then 1 day he just asked how come my moms name is not in there, again not crazy about her name or having 2 but it seemed to sound alright and it makes us both happy!!

Addyson JoLynn Scot........doesnt sound to bad. i would fight for JoLynn though!!

[Joyce49788]

kiki...MY opinion is to tell him to grow up that you are NOT naming your DAUGHTER with a BOYS name. if you want to test him then fine make him believe that you are willing to try Scot....but then what will happen to Lynn?

I thought that you and dh had AGREED on Addyson Lynn?????

I guess i really dont know kiki, if it were me, i would be a total B*tch about it to him and tell him that we are not changing the name now and whatnot. i mean if the only reason he is being a pain is cause of being a baby about the money for his car, then tell him to grow up and get over it....

sorry am very hormonal and opinionated at the moment. bf is being a jerk about any number of things....anything i say, he contradicts. so since we are not married this baby is gonna have MY last name and if he cant agree on a name i like, then he will have to live with the name i choose. i guess that is the beauty about NOT being married...but with that there is also the fact that there is a little more freedom for him to leave if he gets TOO overwhelmed....lol....i dont even care anymore.... hopefully it is just hormones...lol