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in laws!!!!
i cant stand my in laws right now!..i went out with them for a meal last night n all my mother in law did was give me dirty looks..she hates the fact that iv been goin to my mums more throughout this pregnancy,my mum only lives 40mins away frm me and she keeps tellin me hw her house is too far for me to travel to,is it ****!she told me of once brfore too for goin to my own mothers house,i mean who the hell is she to tell me to stay away from my own mother!!!!and now she wants me to ring her as soon as i go into labour!i dont want to as she is only goin to stress me out more!but i know that she'll have a big fat problem if i dont call her right away,and may even begin a huge arguement when baby is born which i dont want on the first day of my child's life in this world..also i dont want my baby to be around her much because if she can try and take me away frm my mum whats goin to stop her from doin the same with my baby...im scared of this woman and i know i shouldnt be but i dont know why i am so much..shes a total control freak,even her son knows that..i just dont want her near my kid,but i dnt think my husband will agree with that...
Then enjoy watching her being upset, coz so far you have most of the cards. You have something that she desperately wants and she can't get that without you.
I do keep it to the bare minimum with her,which pisses her off even more lol.absolutely no winning with her at all!but i have told my husband that if she keeps on causing problems she can say goodbye to her one and only grandchild,because there is no way im going to sit around letting her bad mouth me in front of my child!
I do keep it to the bare minimum with her,which pisses her off even more lol.absolutely no winning with her at all!but i have told my husband that if she keeps on causing problems she can say goodbye to her one and only grandchild,because there is no way im going to sit around letting her bad mouth me in front of my child!
Then am sure she will get off her high horse at some point and sees you as a worthy person and until then you might want to keep her out if your hair - for your sanity's sake and your unborn baby's.
I meant treated her with the utmost respect,but still she finds a problem with me and constantly tries to rub things in my face!i beginning to hate her loads and seriously dont want her to be a part of my baby's life!shes just going to be a bad influence!
I do try to stay patient with her,but her and her daughter just does not know when to stop! N cher i'v tried talkin to her once before but trust me my mil is not someone u can talk to,she sits there tuting while i sat and try to talk to her which causes me to get even more cheesed of wt her.so i dnt bother anymore..she treats my hubbys brother fiance better than me,which isnt fair at all because i have always been nice to her and have treated her with the ufmost
I put up with my inlaws for my husband but luckily his dad lives 12 hours away and his mom lives almost 2 hours away. They both left him when he was 16 to make it on his own. He had a full time job and went to school!! Whenever either parent is down we argue but two days ago his mom came down and I stayed in my room while they visited!! We have gotten into it when my first was born and we still do!! I don't like people using me or my husband just to see my kids but he don't see it that way. Although she told him 2 years ago he could not keep her from them!! I'm getting ill just thinking about her!!!!!!!! His dad is just lazy and sorry. Uses my husbands disabled brothers check every month and he is staying with us for a little while, while his dad is back 12 hours away only sending him $100 a month for food. His check is $684! That boy never sees a dime of it! Pisses me off!!!!!
I have never even spoke to my mother in law.... She doesn't want to know me.. Think that i have trapped her son with the baby. We have been together for 3 years before getting pregnant and he is the one who wanted a baby not me... He try to tell her that but she doesn't want to know.Iam not worried about it....i think she will get used to the idea...and i am not going to hold it against her. I think people get strange when they get older. I try yo be patient with parents.
Some in laws are not easy but try not to reflect too much on what she says coz you will end up in a big fight and the fall out might not be worth it. Otherwise try to talk to her and express yourself without a lot of emotion while her son is there.
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