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4043310 tn?1355912647

Im pissed off

My boyfriend really pisses me off at times when he came in from work I telt him baby girl was head down back to back with me he didnt seem intersted I cuddled up with him and he complained that I was makin him uncomfortable and hurt his hip layin on him so heavy so I told him he should have just told me to move then and he was like u never listen so whats the point so that really pissed me off then he said he was going to be late in from work tomoz as he was goin to get some weed, this just was the icing on top of the cake why the hell is he still buyin weed when av told him to cut down and make it clear I dont like the smell and tell him to have a wash and brush his teeth after smokin a joint! He got fined not long ago aswell really pisses me off and I was rubbin my back tellin him I was sore and asked him if he would give me a rub and he showed me so symtpathy he just said hes sore every day at least my soreness wil go away! Sorry I just needed to vent
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My husband gets the same way...i feel ya girl lol just wait til the baby is here and you can kick his butt back into gear
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Sometime men are from Mars and we are from Venus. I don't think he actually comprehends the gravity of the situation the way you do - you are operating on maternal instincts but seems like for him its a non issue. As for his moodiness or lack of support he might be under stress so sometimes its ok to just give him space and being first time parents can create nerves. At least your mum is there,  she wld understand you more.
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4043310 tn?1355912647
Yeah ano am hoping me cuts the weed out full stop when the baby gets here cause he got fined its goin to b on his record for 6 months and the health visitors do background searches and thats something the health visitor could decide to tell the social worker who can then decide the baby is not safe in our house so if that happens he will have to move out so hes not living with us or baby can b taken from us, he doesnt reliease how much that fine has pissed me off aswell because of that whole situation that could happen
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554628 tn?1362777919
sorry to hear but i would not deal with the weed! that is not safe at all and bad to have around children, maybe once baby gets here it will be better! hope you feel better and sorry to hear but yea i would have went off as well, my husband is in pain alot as well but never makes sure to remind me of the pain he has when im venting or etc to him.
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Yeah right just wait til he feels the pain of you breaking his hand while you push a child put of your VAGINA!!!! Seriously men think they know pain!!!!!!!!!!!! Ughhhhhh makes me mad!!!
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4043310 tn?1355912647
Lol yeah ano a good wee moan always makes me feel better he has some nerve not showin me sympathy I got a sore back and all I wanted was some attention and him to show me he was concerned but nope he was like just least ur pain will b away soon, he has two pins in his knee so when ever am sore he reminds me of his pins
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Sorry girl. My hubby don't do weed but sometimes when I complain to him abt things he ignores me or just never answers me back. It's rough but since this is your first maybe he will straighten up a little after you have baby. It's nice to have somewhere to vent that they can't see lol
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