Abortion

[May2O15]

I want an abortion
23yr 10w
Baby daddy cheating doesn't want to be there.
I'm in no financial position
My family and I don't speak
I'm depressed with out him in my life ( baby dad )

I can't do it anymore .

He wins..

What makes it worse is I've put it on Facebook allready and I changed my life so much "/

I want this parasite out
Help :(

[979659649337621910_975_53]

Parasite was because its something growing inside you and my fear was not being able to be the mom I wanted to be. We are happy and still going doing it alone but I'm not scared anymore xxxxxx my baby is my future and I will love her beyond my life

[Sass508]

Everyone is being incredibly rude here,  but calling the baby a parasite is hard to hear. Do what feels right and it's your decision

[Adolbz]

What's a mil?

[dreamland21]

Glad you are not getting an abortion! ***** that you cant even let your emotions out on here because of all the harsh judgemental women but you are so right you just get stronger and you can handle it! Glad you didnt let these rude people get to you

[1220173935514393887_609_5]

I am a new mother and i am inexperienced in the business of life. But if i were u i would go for abortion in your situation. If he is a douche. This is not a movie dear. Life is hard out there. U are young. U can have babies later. Its not born yet. Make ur career..listen to ur family.they love u and wont give u wrong advices. Do it. Its for good.

[903550611588799750_121_5]

I fully support your decision. I got pregnant because I wanted to be. My family and friends are in full support of me. I m living separately from my husband as my mil is a phycho lady. She behaved like a **** to steal my husband. My pregnancy made that worst. All this time, her target was me but now my unborn baby. For the safety of my baby, I m living alone. I m depressed and always in irritated mode as my mil s spoiling our happy married life. I m unable to cope with this and constantly worry that my depression would hurt my baby. I think your decision is good for the baby. It s not easy to handle personal issue especially when the baby's father left you and no one s there to support you.

[903550611588799750_121_5]

Hi,
I support your decision. When I got pregnant, I was so happy. I really wanted the baby. My husband s good one but not mil. My mil is a phycho lady. She wanted to be only woman in his life. My husband s just a slave. She started freaking out since our engagement. She is behaved

[Adolbz]

Yhh girl u tell um *** bk strong n told um all lool u will love that baby more than anyone ever, and the baby will love u more than any man cud love u.. Ya see the girls being nasty have nothing better to do with their bored hormonal selfs . I don't know u but I'm proud of u be blessed xx

[979659649337621910_975_53]

I've been avoiding this post. Some people are so selfish to jump to conclusions and get all negative

First of all.. Parasite not being rude or anything but having something growing inside of you is.. And it's my little parasite that now gives me joy and hope.

Secondly as for the father of my baby I learnt the hard way, I've let him go, I wanted an abortion because I was scared but talking on here made me realise how empty and alone if feel specialy killing something I've lost many times and now it's my little blessing

Third stop judging and **** right off. I was reaching out at a desperate time for advice and support not sympathy or criticism.

Happy holidays you rude *** people
Hope you felt better putting someone down

Enoughs enough I can't bloody delete this post

But there will be other young girls in my position

It doesn't get easier YOU GET STRONGER

love, me and my 18week cute little parasite xx
Can't wait to spend the rest of my life with it

Chow

[1413715586564746088_953_5]

I have a 3yr daughter and I'm 18weeks pregnant.  I've had an abortion because unstable realationship and I was told by ones so close to me that it's the right thing to do and I myself made that decision . I was 10 weeks when I got it done :/ I have blocked it out of my head but when I do remember what I done I hate myself. I cry..  I hate it.   I think anywhere from 10 weeks onwards is abit far to get one done but I can't talk I done it . It's completely up to you. If you do go through with it just make sure you are completely sure about it.. I don't like abortions but I'm not against them..obviously...    sometimes bringing that baby into he world isn't good

[3766196997704819703_923_5]

YOU decided to open your legs and get pregnant. YOU did. Take responsibility for your actions. Just because your baby daddy doesn't want to be apart of it, doesn't mean you have to give up, and take it out on your little miracle. You're a SICK person calling a little innocent baby a parasite. You're the one who made that "parasite" happen. Take responsibility for you're own actions. You could be an amazing mother if you just tried! Js

[sarahbear94]

Holy **** this post is absolutely mind blowing....you say don't post negative comments...well how about don't post on a public forum then where people hve freedom of speech to react to a ****** up post like this...your right..she doesn't sound like she wants to get an abortion anymore but she's still referring to the baby as a a parasite....the day I found out I was pregnant my baby became a blessing because I have birth to a stillborn baby boy....it was the hardest day of my life. I'm not saying you are wrong for your personal feelings hun. But seriously you sound depressed ...and really need help. If you saught help from a medical professional they would even possibly be able to help you thrive and enjoy your pregnancy...just think what if your mother made a decision to end your life....you would never be...children are a blessing no matter what the circumstance...and if that piece of **** "man" you wanna be with can't step the **** up ...then move on. he doesn't deserve a women like you clearly.  

[Ashley01303]

   I had an abortion a few days ago. I didn't dwell on it, it was more a natural reflex. I took the test, made the appt, now it's over. I think you're right when you consider that you will want a life with someone else and it isn't fair to expect someone to love you and love your baby. Regardless, even if they try, at the end of the day, it will always be YOUR baby.
   You have a choice, sweetheart. It may be a selfish decision but it's yours to make. Don't be a martyr for all these "loving souls" and have this baby because "the people" say it's the right thing to do. You're 23 and have a big life ahead of you. A baby will drag you down and hold you back. That may sound absolutely horrible, but it's honest. You need to do what's best for YOU! You only have one life! Do you want to live it for someone else? Even if that someone else is your child?? Only you know the true value of your life. You can't lower that value for anyone. Not a bunch if strangers on the internet, not some cheating, dog *** man, and not even an innocent baby. You know your heart, little woman. Make your decision and hold your head up high and life a good, happy life. ❤️❤️❤️

[dreamland21]

You people and your negative comments really discust me and **** me off if youve never been in her position then you have no idea what shes going thru, YOU are the horrible person for not reading her comments and being judgemental a**holes

[LilMamaa17]

Your discusting & don't deserve to be a mother anyways.

[sweetdrop1234]

It is Her rights to do what she want and say what she want. She is going through some things that some of you never went through.  She is on here looking for help, support, and someone to listen.  It so sad some of y'all are judging her.  I don't blame her about not willing to give her baby for adoption.  Some of you need to check yourself by telling her to delete her post.

[Luckygirl23]

I can be your friend and visit you sometimes just message me if you want

[Luckygirl23]

Don't kill the baby sweetie we all go through tough moments and struggled pain and hurt ut in life you gotta be strong because if you end up having an abortion its going to hunt you down every day. The man that got you pregnant is a JERK he's wrong for walking away from the baby and you, listen sweetheart keeping this baby will be the best choice you made yea you might be struggling now but one day you will get out of this situation. You will make it you'll be a wonderful mother you know. I think you're afraid that you will be alone but you are not alone. Im in the same situation the dad is avoiding me but its fine ima woman up and take care of my child. Im 13weeks trust me I'm struggling on my own but hey its worth it because when my child gets older she'll see that i struggled with her/him not abandoned him/her. Think about it sweetie

[ZoeLouise1985]

I'm in a similar situation, if u want to chat, however... My baby is my hope and my future. My little ray of sunshine. As I said. Message me if u want a chat

[shimaelamor]

Ladies first she's not going to respond to your Comments because she's not getting rid of her baby if you read more on her post you would have not posted such post I already ask her if she wanted to take it down she said no for women who are in her same deal but I think really that why would any women want to feel like she is stupid etc for feeling a certain way I'm ashamed that women are so quick to judge instead of helping her you say she needs help why don't you ? Your kind words your understanding your sight on life could help a woman change her mind guess what that's what I did not one woman on here faught to help her just leaving don't do it I'll pray for you all that isn't enough if you fight for someone they will fight with you to change they need us because maybe they don't have money for a counselor have you thought about that the free clinics are so full that you just feel like leaving anyways instead of feeling so good about yourself bashing someone try putting yourself in her shoes she's young every women here has been young before doesn't mean they are stupid etc just means they need older views that seem helpful and give love such hateful women I tell you if I seen this and was going through the same thing I would just say you know all these hateful women make this sound a good reason to do it! Yes low self-esteem  yes what she said isn't right but what you say makes what she said look like Jesus said it you are so so wrong for that! It took me 3 years to get pregnant I was so depressed so much so I could have killed myself what about her calling her out her name what if your words make her kill herself or both of them or even leave the baby in the trash can like some women because they don't have kind people to help them through !!!! Yall go get help yall start getting counseling cause the words you say seems like you have to much depression about your own issues! LEAVE COMMENTS THAT HELP GEEZ!!!! May2015 I don't know how anyone in your situation can get help if people like them won't help my advice make sure you say something occasionally for those to know how you have changed and how you can help those in need too if that's what you want to do but this makes my heart weak you have my contact I can't keep looking here and seeing such foul play here God bless you May2015 it takes gusts to post and gusts to want to seek help and receive it I'm really happy to help you love ♡ good day for now!

[imfinallypregnant]

Well i can say my opinion and if you dont like it too bad. i will not shut my mouth or in this case my fingers lol anyways the truth always hurts and gets people upset maybe thats why you also dont like my opinion.. I dont think i was being cruel in anyway things like her dont deserve to have kids.. I am not against people that have abortions or anything like that i know everyone has their own choice but why be selfish and get rid of it just because the man you chose to open your legs to doesnt want you or cheats.. And call the baby a parasite thats a sick person

[dreamland21]

@Imfinallypregnant I think you should keep your opnion to yourself its not helpfull and its very cruel! You dont know what she is going thru and you obviously didnt read any of her comments on this thread so until you learn some compassion keep your damn mouth shut noone needs your negativity. SMH @ you.

[imfinallypregnant]

I really hope you dont get pregnant ever again.. I feel sorry for your low self esteem having to base your happiness on a man that cheats and does not love you.. You are a very selfish women. Calling your baby a parasite the only parasite here is you... There are so many women who cant have babies and a ugly thing like you just wants to get rid of it because of a man.. You need psycological help and need to be esterilized.

[Frany347]

So all i keep reading on here is that this woman is disgusting for wanting an abortion and or calling her baby a parasite...why don't you ******* think about the people who rape their own flesh and blood or have their children so they can beat them and kill them. This woman isn't sure if shes ready to be a mother yet. And quite frankly i don't belive in abortions. I also don't believe in putting my child up for adoption there has been so many cases where the adoptive family has harmed and raped these children. So if you have negative comments keep them to yourself it's just that simple no need to have a big damn mouth.