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So sad

the father of my child has been really disrespectful towards me , he calls me out my name & I recently found out he was cheating on me . I'll be 19 weeks on Saturday . I've been crying and stressed out .
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Thank you so much ladies ! That made me feel so much better. Because I was so depressed
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Im so sorry to hear that. My ex partner was the same with my first. I was torn up but like the rest say the most important thing for you and your baby is to try remain calm. It is his loss and when your baby is born he/she will take up ur thoughts and you will be happy. Ur baby needs you and loves you and you obv love your baby and like me even find someone better who deserves urs and ur babes time and love
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Try not to worry about it and keep your chin up. You and this baby are the only thing that matters, its up to him to sort his attitude out and help you out when he grows up.
Find some support in your parents, brothers and sisters and people who are in your situation.

You dont NEED  a man in your life to do this although it is nice. You just focus on your baby and you keeping happy. Concentrate on work or find a hobby to keep you occupied. When you feel down get wrapped up and go out for a walk. Dont let this beat you, youre going to be a beautiful mum, give it time and it will pass :)
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Oh noo, so sorry to hear. How are you holding up? Even though this is the worst news, please try not to stress because this will negatively affect your  baby. I hope the two of you can work it out, what happens either way, know your baby is on his/her way and that what you decide will affect their life too. Wishing you all the strength.
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