he even compared that place to hooter servers. which made me feel angry. atleast hooters have their own uniform but that cafe lu doesnt! like literally underwear/ lingerie with heels on!
Talk to your husband about how it makes you feel when he goes to places like that. I would be upset too. It's disrespectfull towards you for him to go there.
Hope it gets better. :(
Oh, and btw, you're not being insecure for not wanting your husband to gawk, flirt, and lust over other women. It's you having enough respect for yourself knowing that you deserve better. I can't stand that bull crap lie people tell women.
I wouldn't have a husband anymore cause he'd be dead.. Lol.. Seriously though just be vocal about it. Tell him you're carrying his kidand you ddon't appreciate him gocking over other woman when he's to scared to "take care" of the one he's got. I'm pissed for you girl friend I wish you luck. Go to a male strip club to eat steak and ask him how it feels.
Your reaction is completely understandable and he shouldn't be acting like this ever if he respects you. You need to talk to him calmly, find out why he needs to do these type of things and see how you can help satisfy his needs. Pregnancy is a strange time for couples and it is very easy for one to feel neglected, disrespected or left out. You need to talk about your expectations and ways of preventing each other feeling unwanted.
I too get very jealous now more than ever but it's my self esteem that's lacking! My husbands best friend has sent him messages with porn in them and I confronted immediately and I must admit not so calmly! We've been married for 20 years this March and honestly the payback idea doesn't work... You should explain how this makes you feel and ask him how he'd feel if you did something similar? I agree with the pleasuring one another in alternative ways! You can make love without actual intercourse. Be creative and give him attention that he seems to be lacking. Good luck