is it me of or the hormones?

[markNkayla]

Has anybody else had this happen to them I'm 25 weeks and my boyfriend and I are moving in our own place well today while my boyfriend was at work my mom and me went and cleaned the whole house then we came home and I started packing and packed from 11 am to 5:30 pm  (a lot of stuff to pack) I didn't really pack anything that I didn't know what he wanted to leave out like clothes so when he came home, my back and whole body was already hurting and I felt like I've been hit my a bus, I asked him to go through his clothes and layout what he wanted to wear it the next two days all he said was I don't care just picked me out something, for some reason it made me so mad that I've done packed almost everything up went and cleaned the house, packed the baby stuff up packed his kids (from a ex marriages) toys,clothes,  beds, and covers. I've done packed and repacked to r try to make everything fit in smaller boxes.. and all I asked was for him to go through his clothes find three out fits and pack the rest that's all. Am I wrong for getting so irritated because he didn't wanna do that??? I couldn't help it I had to get this off my chest

[lorinewmum]

@imfinallypregnant: Lol, that's progress!
I don't know why men can be like this. My hubby is the same. It's almost like I have to remind him that I'm pregnant every hour, he just doesn't seem to remember! The only thing you can do is tell him, point out how much you have done and that you shouldn't actually be lifting anything. I'm starting not to respond to my hubby's moods. I just do as much as I can and if he complains, its simple: he needs to do it. I'm not getting myself wound up over small things during this time and I have told him I wasn't going to go into arguments about silly things and get my blood pressure up and getting baby stressed for no reason...it seems to work ;) You're pregnant, use that to your advantage or else you are going to suffer more if you keep on doing strenuous housework.

[imfinallypregnant]

You have every right to be upset... Talk to him about it you did more than enough you even packed up for his kids which is not your responsability.. My husband use to be like that he was expecting me to do everything for him like i always did even if i cleaned the house he wanted me to iron his clothes and all until i said im pregnant from now on i will only get your work clothes ready but not iron them if you want them ironed you do it now he even does the laundry on saturdays..