Think I'm going to go for esmay, thank you :)
ESMAY since you are having her on may or
Having similar problem with Elena/Elaina I think second is too close to Elaine and will end up being called it instead but my b/f prefers it.... :-(
I like Esmae! It looks more feminine and is beautifully unique! I also feel like it's easier to pronounce spelled this way. But of course it's up to you! -Kit